I went through the same kind of vibration chasing. Had my harmonic balancer rebuilt, had the tires balanced a couple of times, measured/changed the pinion angle, had my driveshaft rebuilt/balanced, all with no change. Someone here suggested I change the trans mount, but it looked fine and my trans guy said there was nothing wrong with it. What the hell, it was cheap ($25-30), easy (about an hour), and non-hipo specific (easy to get).
It worked and the car was transformed! Smooth as silk all the way through the rpm range/speeds. The mount I took off looked great, no cracks in the rubber or metal.
Try this, note the rpms where the vibration occurs (not the speed), once you've found that rpm, try it in differant gears at the same rpm. It may be subtle, but I'll bet its there. These engines seem to have a harmonic at certain rpms (probabley differant on every engine due to differing balancing) that just might be enough vibrate an old trans mount.
Let us know what you find,
Mario